They Don’t Want Accountability. They Want Ammunition.

Some people don’t want closure. They want leverage. And you keep handing it to them.

You think they’re finally ready to take responsibility.
But they’re just loading the gun.
You hand them your truth—and they twist it into a weapon.

For a long time, I didn’t understand why I felt worse after being honest with certain people. I thought healing meant speaking up. I thought vulnerability would lead to connection. I thought being clear about w…