This was excellent. Had a lot of predator type men after I was widowed. They all used the same technique. Just as you said. One other that I ran into was “I’m a Christian and felt I was called to help you.” Then, when I didn’t comply with what they wanted I was a bad Christian for not helping them. I learned a lot. But, this was an excellent article. Thank you.
Pattern recognition is our friend! These folks absolutely aren’t unique.
Funny thing about trying to conform to the cultural superiority of being unique, it has this paradoxical effect of creating a bunch of NPCs who all talk and act the same. Narcissists with no authentic identity. Because they objectified themselves on extrinsic capitalist goals.
White supremacy is a trip. How many narcissists would know that’s what their problem is?
Isn’t it interesting how we don’t put a disclaimer on individualism?
Because it’s all part of a pattern that comes from culture, an AI study recent proved you can match hate speech to personality disorders.
But then, we’ve known for awhile cognitive bias was a diagnostic and those cognitive biases are political influence. The other is economic. Practice greed and rationalization, it breaks the critical thinking. Rich people don’t have any.
If you want to have fun, try getting them to be racist to embarrass themselves. They believe in eugenics, or they wouldn’t be manifesting narcissism, so tilt them with it. It’s how they justify to themselves keeping us all poor and never helping anyone. There’s one more way to catch one.
I ever started learning linguistics to help myself stop saying cognitive biases and manipulative things. I didn’t realize I was. Most don’t. Because they don’t understand their ideas are wrong to begin with. Unwire individualism, unwire privileged behavior.
Because narcissism and privilege are the same thing. Be suspect of people who can’t seem to stop discriminating. Believing in meritocracy made Americans so high on their egos that they’re mystified to what’s happening.
They could just study the 30 years Germany took to go from progressive to a Holocaust. It’s all right there.
I’ve lived this pattern enough times to recognize the blueprint.
What used to break me now just informs me.
There’s power in seeing clearly
without anger, without illusion.
Thank you for naming it with such precision.
Great article. I wish I'd read this 18 years ago. It would have changed my life. I hope it changes someone else's.
This was excellent. Had a lot of predator type men after I was widowed. They all used the same technique. Just as you said. One other that I ran into was “I’m a Christian and felt I was called to help you.” Then, when I didn’t comply with what they wanted I was a bad Christian for not helping them. I learned a lot. But, this was an excellent article. Thank you.
Pattern recognition is our friend! These folks absolutely aren’t unique.
Funny thing about trying to conform to the cultural superiority of being unique, it has this paradoxical effect of creating a bunch of NPCs who all talk and act the same. Narcissists with no authentic identity. Because they objectified themselves on extrinsic capitalist goals.
White supremacy is a trip. How many narcissists would know that’s what their problem is?
Isn’t it interesting how we don’t put a disclaimer on individualism?
Because it’s all part of a pattern that comes from culture, an AI study recent proved you can match hate speech to personality disorders.
But then, we’ve known for awhile cognitive bias was a diagnostic and those cognitive biases are political influence. The other is economic. Practice greed and rationalization, it breaks the critical thinking. Rich people don’t have any.
If you want to have fun, try getting them to be racist to embarrass themselves. They believe in eugenics, or they wouldn’t be manifesting narcissism, so tilt them with it. It’s how they justify to themselves keeping us all poor and never helping anyone. There’s one more way to catch one.
I ever started learning linguistics to help myself stop saying cognitive biases and manipulative things. I didn’t realize I was. Most don’t. Because they don’t understand their ideas are wrong to begin with. Unwire individualism, unwire privileged behavior.
Because narcissism and privilege are the same thing. Be suspect of people who can’t seem to stop discriminating. Believing in meritocracy made Americans so high on their egos that they’re mystified to what’s happening.
They could just study the 30 years Germany took to go from progressive to a Holocaust. It’s all right there.
Thank you