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Suze's avatar

Everything you wrote in this article screamed “that’s me!” I am chronically clumsy, disorganised, doing something at 100 miles per hour or paralysed by indecision and if there were a gold medal for procrastination, I’d be on the team and possibly a potential winner. My credit card has just changed from one bank to another and I need a new app. I’ve tried to sort it out but have completely failed so whenever I think about it now, it triggers my fight or flight response and I feel trapped. I do have a proper diagnosis of ADHD now so a lot of things make more sense now, but, even with medication, my ADHD brain still doesn’t work as I’d like it to.

Thank you.

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Calvin's avatar

I could relate to some of your points in this article, as a child I was extremely clumsy, and still have that attribute to this day, but not as much. I need to do lists to keep my mind on what needs to be accomplished, this keeps me organized. I am also a perfectionist, and I like order.

I hated school, learning with my mind was just plainly painful, so I would always wander away into my imagination to coup. I failed 5th grade, did not finish my 11th year, was going to fail anyway, and never went back to school. I HATED everything it stood for!

Do you think procrastination stems from ADHD?

Thank you for sharing this, I could see some of my own frustrations with my life in this.

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Sandi's avatar

I think we must be neurobiological twins! Is that a word? Who cares. I see myself in every single point you made. I have decided it’s time to get tested by my neurologist for this. I am 75 and I think it’s high time I got the right medication! 💕

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Anna Leggett's avatar

Wow, thank you for sharing this. I had a concussion in 2016 and I can relate to much of what you say. This is really helpful. So often I feel lazy but my brain often just will not get into gear enough to do what I want to do. I also get anxiety starting reasonably simple and straightforward tasks. I've never heard anyone say this before. Your post makes me feel not so alone and gives me hope.

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