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Nadia Bolz-Weber's avatar

Yep seen these all in the wild. Maybe the next question is, "If we have the capacity to be deeply honest about it, which of these do WE employ?"

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Sandi's avatar

Truth! My sister denied saying something that I will never forget - because it wasn’t very nice. Then when I got hurt because of what she had said earlier and reminded her of it - she told me she had never said it. She was firmly in denial and I was ghosted for telling her the truth.

I was left feeling like the bad guy.

Your words made me see why she was doing that. TY! 💕

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Blue_Songstress's avatar

You’re a riot.

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KaZ In The World's avatar

Sounds like the classic narcissist.

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Amanda Jones's avatar

I'll admit, my favorite is when those 2 coworkers try the silent treatment (they cycle through tactics). Makes my day easier to not have to listen to their nonsense

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julie elder's avatar

Oh boy—my ex used them all! I guess that’s what you call “versatile.” Lol

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Fr. Scott Bailey, C.Ss.R.'s avatar

Spot on.

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