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Virgin Monk Boy's avatar

This isn’t a post—it’s a resurrection.

You named what so many of us carry in silence: the cult of constant motion, the grind-as-god, the trauma-suit we were praised for wearing until it nearly killed us.

“Rest is where the danger used to live.” That line punched me straight in the parasympathetic. The nervous system doesn’t lie, but capitalism does—every damn day, whispering that collapse is commitment and stillness is sloth.

But you? You’ve become a prophet of the pause.

Thank you for turning your breakdown into a blessing for the rest of us still learning how to breathe without apology. This is sacred rebellion.

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Elizabeth Schneider's avatar

A timely post. I provided respite care for a young woman with Druvet Syndrome. Her mother would not, could not slow down and had a massive panic attack that required a visit to the ER yesterday morning, paramedics and all. She took all manner of medications to sleep and literally had a psychotic break. I’ve seen that sort of thing my entire life, in myself as well. I used to be an overachiever, people pleaser, over-functioning in every disaster. I cannot live that way any longer. Thank you for using the term over-functioning. I now equate health with true wealth. Mental health, spiritual health and physical health. I’m back to basics…choose life, do not give up. My addendum would be do not accept responsibility that is not truly our’s to accept. I was always overly responsible, I can see now.

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