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Anita Mariena's avatar

Hi Cody

What you say resonates with me I’ve actually written a book based on my life called

‘Hamster on a Wheel’ - a busy life

Yes we all need to question. our motives - no matter how buried they might be.

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Stateless Shaun's avatar

Questioning our motives is the key to breaking the cycle.

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Anita Mariena's avatar

Sometimes it’s difficult to understand our motives we have tied them up in our subconscious

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Rev. Suzanne DeWees, PhD's avatar

It all matters, doesn’t it? Because life is meant to be lived. Not lived perfectly. Not even lived authentically- until, that is, we know how. So, we just wade through our karma, clearing the path, hopefully to assist someone else that they may rise up. I’m thinking of Nelson Mandela’s prayer to unify: Let us Pray for the Elders for they have come a long way; and, Let us Pray for the children, for they have a long way to go; and, Let us Pray for those in between, for they are doing the work. You, my friend, are doing the work. You are unifying and clearing the path. I feel pretty certain you are living your life most authentically. Not to worry. About anything.

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Michaela Dominguez's avatar

This article, in a weird way, made me feel grateful for my energy-limiting chronic illness. Ten plus years ago, I was always busy, rarely rested, and running myself into the ground for all the wrong reasons. My body literally quit on me. I've been chronically ill ever since. I can't overwork now because my body shuts down if I do. I've hated this disease because it ruined my life, but it also saved me.

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Ryan Fair's avatar

Your words are refreshing man. I'm also a male survivor of sexual abuse and also feel my self worth is deeply tied to my levels of productivity and success.

Being able to pause and ask myself - am I building or running - is a question I will be keeping in my back pocket.

I'm inspired by your vulnerability and helpfulness. Thanks again for sharing

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Lauren's avatar

So damn relatable, thank you.

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